Nancy Reagan referred to it as “the long goodbye,” the slow deterioration of President Reagan’s mind to Alzheimer’s disease. Sylvia Mackey knows it, too. For ten years she has shared her husband’s battle with frontotemporal dementia. That battle came to an end on Wednesday.
But Mackey will be remembered for more than just his accomplishments on the field. His battle with frontotemporal dementia, the deterioration of the front lobes of the brain, caused changes in his memory and personality. Wife Sylvia worked everyday to help her husband. She showed him old game footage, relived old memories and took him to sporting events to see his former teammates and his fans. She wanted him to remember as much as he could.
But the road was a difficult one. The NFL Retirement Board refused to pay disability to Mackey and Sylvia was forced to go back to work to pay for health care. This hardship lead to Mackey’s former Baltimore Colts teammates to create Fourth and Goal, a 501(c)(3) dedicated to advocacy and support of retired NFL players. Their efforts lead to the creation of the “88 Plan”, named after Mackey’s #88, by the NFL and the NFL Players Association to provide funds for nursing home care and adult day care.
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John and Sylvia’s story is a reminder that there is a price for our love of sports. Some players are only one play
Shawn Herne is the Chief Curator for the Babe Ruth Birthplace Foundation, Inc.